I try not to raise my voice, but sometimes I do. I try to be patient and use my teaching voice instead of an angry voice. Our two-year-old granddaughter often points out the one thing at mealtime she doesn't like. When Gram (my wife) sets the plate in front of her, she might say, "But I don't like peas!" or "But I didn't want a red plate, I want a blue plate!" So sometimes she loudly points out the one thing she doesn't like.